I can not make buddies in my new city as a result of native ladies hold making an attempt to steal my husband

DEAR ABBY: My 18-year-old stepdaughter has determined up to now one other feminine. She has dated boys up to now, however that’s not the difficulty. We have now nothing in opposition to the LGBTQ group. (My husband’s brother is homosexual.)

My subject is, ought to my stepdaughter spend time together with her girlfriend in her bed room with the door closed? 

If this have been a boy, my husband will surely have a difficulty with it — concern of sexual exercise resulting in getting pregnant.

We’re each old-fashioned about that however have embraced her new relationship. However we positively don’t need our home to be the hook-up level. It makes us uncomfortable.

How ought to we deal with this? — OPEN DOOR IN PENNSYLVANIA

DEAR OPEN DOOR: Deal with this the identical approach you’ll if you happen to have been writing in regards to the younger lady having a boyfriend.

Inform her you might be uncomfortable with sexual exercise occurring in your house and like that if she entertains her girlfriend in her bed room, she should depart the door open. 

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I lately moved to a smaller city from an enormous metropolis to be nearer to our new grandbaby.

This city is populated with a lot of older single ladies and, since day one, they’ve been drawn in droves to my husband, who’s a really handsome older man. 

These ladies behave as if I’m not even there. They transfer very near us whereas we’re procuring and flirt with him. I’ve needed to bodily insert myself between considered one of them and my husband on a number of events.

Not solely is that this annoying whereas it’s occurring, however I’m having a tough time making buddies.

A couple of feminine pal has developed an unhealthy crush on him, so I not belief different ladies. What do I do? — JUST THE WIFE IN VERMONT

DEAR WIFE: You will need to resolve to what diploma you belief your husband to not stray, and focus your efforts on making buddies with different {couples}.

It will even be good in case your husband might remind these ladies that he’s married and that you just’re proper there.

DEAR ABBY: My spouse went on trip together with her greatest pal. Whereas they have been there, they visited a nudist resort. She admitted she took off her bathing go well with and went swimming. Her pal additionally did.

I used to be fuming to assume she would undress in entrance of strangers. I really feel betrayed. It makes me sick to my abdomen to assume she did this to me.

Am I fallacious to be troubled and mad in regards to the state of affairs? — DRESSED IN MAINE

DEAR DRESSED: I must know extra in regards to the clothes elective resort your spouse and her pal visited.

The nudist way of life isn’t a swinging singles weekend. It’s typically loved by complete households, and the environment is wholesome.

Please get off the defensive and ask your spouse to inform you extra about her “journey,” which can have been not more than harmless enjoyable and had nothing to do with you.

You don’t “personal” her physique, simply her coronary heart — if you’re fortunate.

Expensive Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also called Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Expensive Abby at DearAbby.com or P.O. Field 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.